Saturday, September 27, 2008

Nathan updates


Go Nathan!! I'm very excited to announce (no he isn't walking) but he is walking along furniture!! I don't have to go to his 1 yr appt and say he doesn't do that. I was so dreading it. Last time it was about 70/30 of things he doesn't do to things he was doing by 9 months. I was afraid the list for his 1 yr appt would be equally bad - but I don't know. Maybe it won't?

He is also climbing stairs - much to my chagrin. He was up 2 stairs before I even noticed today and climbed all 7 with no problem. The worst part is that he has to climb with you behind him without him knowing you're behind him. Does that make sense? I have just noticed that as soon as he realizes there is someone behind him, he wants to turn around mid staircase and sit down. Unfortunately stairs are not that wide... No falls yet, but there will be many. It just changes everything now. When we were downstairs we didn't have to worry. Well, let the worrying begin!
(sob)

And this is just a video that made me laugh. Little brothers for generations have been picked on. I guess this one is no different. Yes, I did put him in the bucket, but just because he looked like he would fit. Eli put the toys in. Poor kid...

Note to self

Don't go a full week without reading blogs or email. It takes way too long to catch up.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Simplify

Do you ever wonder in a given day how many things you do that you could more simply? I always seem to do things the hard way and then keep doing them that way just because thats how I've always done it.
My example is this... bath time.
Since Nathan was born, he has been in a baby tub. We've always had separate bath times for the kids and its worked out just fine. I'd bathe one kid, bring him down to Chris and give the next one a bath. Why I kept doing it this way for so long is beyond me. I understand that at the beginning Nathan needed to be in a baby tub... he couldn't sit up. But for months now I"ve kept it up just the same. So a couple nights ago I put them both in the tub together (mostly because I was exhausted and it was getting late). WOW!! SO much easier!! They play together, splash and have a great time and then they're done. Both done. I can put Nathan in his pajamas while Eli gets dressed in his. No shuffling or dealing with where to put the other kid... I've been doing it the hard way for so long just because its how I've always done it and I've never thought about simplifying my life.

So how else can I apply my new lesson? I've been thinking about chores and cleaning and I haven't thought of any other ones yet... but its probably because I can't see the forest for the trees. oh well. I guess I'll enjoy my extra 10 minutes every evening. :)

As for how we're doing all is well. Chris is painting our kitchen. RED. We nixed the yellow and its going to be a very dark deep red. It has some orangish tints in the swatch, and I'm very curious how it'll turn out on the wall. I'm also very curious to see how on earth I'm going to get my house clean for game night. We're having a game night at our house on Friday and with everything in the kitchen torn up for the paint... well its a tornado in here! I'm sure everyone will understand if its not perfect. (right??) ;) I'll clean next week when Chris' parents come to town.

Then there is Nathan who is sick or teething or something. He screamed for 2 solid hours today. He would stand up in his crib and scream... so tired he would almost fall over. I think he had a stuffy nose and every time he laid down he wouldn't be able to breath. who knows. He seems fine now, but a little warm. ugh. I guess we'll find out tomorrow if he is sick or not. Why does he have to get sick now? He already has an appt in a week and a half for his 1 yr old checkup. It seems like such a waste to have to go to the doctor twice in 2 weeks. you know? I'm sure he is fine. ok, so I'm not sure, but I hope. I hope he is fine.
So thats it for us. And if you have any thoughts on other things you have found that help simplify your life - let me know!! I'm always up for suggestions.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

No more CNN for me

I've officially banned myself. It just makes me upset and ends up ruining my day. Nathan was up a little early this morning and the channel was already set to CNN (and I didn't change it). So I listened for about an hour or so of how awful our economy is and how the stock market has been crashing these last few days and how all these major corporations are getting bought out by the government and what this means for us. Oh goody.
Somebody please tell me how we got in to this mess in the first place? I know that economy's are cyclical and everything that goes up must come down and it will go up again but this seems worse than downturns we've had in the past. I have to say that its very nice of these other countries to be feeding us more money that we can't afford but really! In the last couple weeks we're over $300 Billion more in debt from just company bailouts alone. I guess my question is - when is our government going to declare bankruptcy? Who is going to bail it out when it realizes there is no where left to turn? We're building ourselves a house of cards that will collapse eventually. It just scares me. Maybe I'm just a pessimist and everything will turn out ok, it just seems to me that we're putting a bandaid on a broken leg.
My favorite line this morning was some reporter lady who was on the stock exchange floor who said that this major downturn over the last few days was supposed to be a 'message' to Washington that they wanted leadership. Both in the White House now and in the coming election. Ummm.... who exactly is that going to be?? Economic leadership??? who has the understanding to run a company? balance a budget? hmmm... none of them? Our candidates are Senators. They are not Governors or CEO's. Some of them I agree with a little more on how they spend money, but I'm not going to get in to that right now.
Sorry for my ranting. Now you know the reason for my new rule: Not allowed to watch CNN before breakfast.
...ok, editing to add something. A friend pointed me in the direction of this post. Its just a random person commenting on a news article so take it for what its worth, but its exactly how I feel, and he makes some excellent points. It also makes me scared to death. (especially the end of the 2nd to last paragraph) yikes!!!!!

All these bailouts are tantamount to robbery of the American people by our own Treasury. It is the greatest rip off in history being done right under our own noses and no one is saying anything to stop it.

All the bailouts will fail. The debt bubble is too large and will deflate no matter what the Fed, the Treasury and Congress do. Bush is such a coward he would not even have a press conference yesterday after getting updated on the situation. He is so stupid he probably didn’t know what to say anyway. This administration is largely responsible for what we are facing now by ignoring domestic issues in favor of a needless foreign war. Don’t forget that when you vote in November.

The bigger question is this: WHO WILL BAIL OUT THE USA? Our debt (government and private) is so large it is impossible to repay. So my thinking is the government will continue to bail out companies like AIG just to buy time. After all, the numbers have become meaningless.

Here are some basic facts that dictate why there will be no housing or economic recovery anytime soon.

1. Our society is consumer driven to an absurd degree (70-80%). Less than 10% of our economy is manufacturing based and is shrinking daily. We do not have the manufacturing means to support ourselves. We must import just to survive.
2. Unemployment is growing and is substantially higher than government figures show. The use of the birth/death model has completely understated unemployment to make the economy look better than it is and this was done by design by our government.
3. Incomes have not grown for the average American in real terms in decades. We are already getting poorer.
4. We have used up ALL our credit. Home equity loans, car loans, credit cards, etc. Nothing is paid for. We not only borrowed against current and future earnings but also equity that no longer exists.
5. We, as consumers, have saved nothing for years and therefore have no cushion to fall back on in hard times.
6. Pensions are either nonexistent or under-funded.
7. The economic boom in the USA from 1982 to 2006 was achieved through inorganic growth. That means through mergers and acquisitions and stock buybacks rather than product development and innovation, which is organic growth. Organic growth is self-sustaining while inorganic growth is not.
8. By displacing jobs overseas, our companies depleted our own economy of the consumers it desperately needs to sustain itself.
9. Our government is completely out of touch with reality and has failed the American people. Moreover, their excess spending crowds everyone else out of the credit market.
10. There is no accountability.

All of these issues must be addressed before a sustainable recovery can begin. Our system is fundamentally broken. The virtuous circle created by Republicans Greenspan and Reagan is now the vicious circle. As the famed Austrian economist Kurt Richebacher said a few years ago warning about this calamity to come, “Every market excess must be followed by a market correction of equal or greater magnitude.” The recent market excess was the biggest in history.

We know the credit crisis is far from over. Hang on to your cash, sell your stocks and get out of debt. No one knows how it will play out but these 3 precautions will help you survive.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Crawling

I FINALLY got videos of Nathan crawling. I wanted to get one of him army crawling before he started 'regular' crawling (which he is starting to do). And I did!!! He is still in the transition phase. He still gets around much quicker army style, but he is figuring out the regular crawl (albeit a little wobbly) very fast. It should be said that when Eli was this age - he was still immobile. LOL!
And to give credit where credit is due - the background music is thanks to Danas blog. ;)

This is his new 'trick'. He can crawl like the regular kids!! Mommy is thankful, because it'll save the fronts of his shirts from becoming as dingy and dirty as they have been.



Nathans special way of crawling. He can zip around on the gym floor at church... just ask Daddy.

Zodiac signs

Ok, so I'm not an astrological person myself (at all) but I saw a Baby Story recently where they actually wanted a certain sign, so they tried really hard that month and they got their wish. It was just so strange to me, because I have never thought about horoscopes or any of that when it comes to my kids. Anyway, it got me curious as to what my kids were and if it 'fit'. Here are my findings... (found from Wikepedia)
Eli is a Gemini. It says that characteristics are straight forward, open-minded, friendly, outgoing, playful but that they are self oriented, superficial, insensitive and vain. I'm going to have to wait on that one. At the moment I'm going to say no. He is a helper and a giver. He wants nothing more than to be there for someone. (this is why I don't listen to horoscopes)
Nathan is a Libra. This one actually made me laugh. He is easy going, sociable, peace loving, sensitive, fair and cheerful. But in the physical characteristics... it says that they have a 'trademark' dimple. Crazy huh?? Maybe there's something to this astrology stuff. LOL!

Anyway, just thought I would share. BTW I'm a Cancer who is widely thought to be compatible with Scorpio (which is what Chris is)

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Veggie Tales and other updates


This is Eli's new favorite thing. He is - shall we say obsessed with veggie tales?? He would watch them ALL day if I let him. As it is, I've limited it to 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the afternoon. Thanks to Grandma Gillie, we have a bunch in the house so he is able to rotate through them... thank goodness. Last night we went down to the Utah State Fair where they had a Veggie Tales program. They had life size vegetables on stage singing a bunch of the songs from the different shows. The actual story line and acting from the people in the production was awful, but Eli enjoyed it and especially when they started singing songs that he was more familiar with - he was having a blast. Even as I am sitting here writing, he is asking to go again.

In other news, Eli still loves preschool, I have 2 bags of peaches on my counter waiting to be cut up, and I have finally organized Nathans baby clothes. He had a pile of clothes on his closet floor from winter that are now too small, so I went through them today (it was seriously getting out of control). Pile for getting rid of and a pile to keep. I'm impressed with how much I got rid of. I really didn't feel the need to keep that much. Unfortunately, that also came with bringing out the winter clothes (for this coming winter), so they are now strewn all across his floor at the moment. I'm hoping that I can tackle one clutter pile a day and get my house organized a little better than its been. Its overwhelming when you're at home staring at it all day.

Oh, and I can officially talk "Veronica Mars". I am finished with all 3 seasons. (and Chris is almost done with Season 1) Is it just me, or did the 3rd season not really end????? It was shorter than the others and it didn't have any finality to it. I was sad. Although on the last disk they had what season 4 would have been had they picked it up again... looks like it would have been a really good show. It would be her first year in the FBI. New characters, new look, new everything. Oh well. I guess the creator wants to do a movie or something in the next couple years, so hopefully I can get another 'fix'. He said something about picking up while still in college so that all the characters can still be there. I think I might even try to watch Moonlight this season just to see Jason Dohring. ;) He's so cute... Although I don't know how cute he'll be with fangs and vampire eyes... oh well.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Soccer Time!

No more firsts!! I can't take them anymore. I guess its fun to see Eli doing so many new things and today was no different. It was Eli's very first soccer game. He is on the team with his friend Jeffrey, and 3 other boys. Jeffrey's mom Windy is the coach. (by the way, Great job Windy)

I think Eli had a good time, but the field was right next to the playground, and you could tell the team would have preferred to play on it instead. Actually, one little boy ran onto the slide during an out of bounds ball. Eli threw a fit when it was his turn to go play and he couldn't go on to the playground. Oh well. They are still so young, but if today was any indication - soccer is not his sport. LOL! The good news is that he wants to play again next week and he says that he had fun. Yeah Eli!!!

This is a picture of one of his teammates Dax. Dax was the "power forward" shall we say? He made a few goals, but not all of them for his own team.


Eli throwing the ball in. It took a minute or two to actually get the kids to watch the ball. They were a little distracted...

All done playing. Go REDS!!!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

My babys first day of preschool

He is so grown up. Today was Eli's first day of preschool. He had a great time (I think). He didn't say too much. They went outside, drew some pictures and sang a song about a fish and a whale? We signed him in and there was kind of a lot of commotion going on with all the parents, so I walked out of the room and hung out in the hallway for a few seconds. I looked back at him and he had this worried look on his face like he didn't know where to go or what to do. So I went back in, showed him where the toys were and then left. They seem very routine oriented, which is great for him. He does really well with order and routine. If he goes in and knows what to do every day - he is going to have so much fun. Anyway, here is my little guy all excited for his big day.


Family


We got to spend the evening last night at Chris' sister Marys house. Jo Ann was in town taking their daughter Camie to school, so we all hung out for a few hours and had dinner. It was nice and all is well. This picture is a few of Chris' sisters. Actually, its 1/2 of the Porter children. He is the youngest of 8.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Coincidence?

(Carrie, this is for you)
We got my stock options check the same day as our carpet bill. Coincidence? or fate telling me to pay it off. Woohoo!!!! We're debt FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, ok, so the checks haven't cleared, but they will this week and I am elated beyond belief. I hate the weight on your shoulders bearing you down... ugh. Awful feeling. I would love to follow the Dave Ramsey book and live a debt free lifestyle, but we have a long way to go before that happens. I guess in a way I follow it, but we're still early in the 'steps'. Isn't step 3 to get your 6 month savings?
I find it so funny that only 50 years ago no one hardly owned a credit card. Funny how things change. We are blessed and that is all there is to it.

So did everyone have a good Labor Day? Mine was excellent. I enjoyed a full season of Veronica Mars (and am currently starting season 2) and Chris and I were able to get away for the evening without the kids. Thank you so much Sara and Kyle!!!! Today has been very lazy, but enjoyable. We bought the paint colors for our kitchen/entry. We're going to have a yellow kitchen now. I hope it's not too 'in your face' when it gets on the walls.

Anyway, just had to share my wonderful news. I could shout it from the rooftops. YAY!!!